Time :2011-09-18 11:39 source: Click :time ,Doudou its name , relationresultDoudouis daughter name, her father gave her the good shout ,remember, shouting loud ,ringing .About twenty pronunciation is on central by a strong stimulus ,cried or heard from again ,can in the central left traces .
Our home, Doudou visibility is very high ,it is known to make known to every family ,people of all ages and both sexes . Mother to daughter name ,do not know me, if I said I was teasing mum ,metropolitan Oh said to know ,seems to be known ,therefore I visibility also appears to be rising soon .
relationresultDoudouwas born before I gave her many names ,then ,nothing Sato ,boy girl name each took ten ,while she was born ,the preselected name but I don use a .When he was discharged from the hospital to fill the birth certificate ,ask the name of the child ,husband waiting for me ,but I turned at husband .
Or write funny now, for a husband .The husband said ,he first saw the daughter at the time ,would not believe that their child ,glossy black hair ,dark eyes drop yo ,face bright white, a little like a crumpled ,eyes closed ,no eyebrow hair in the newborn .
The nurse pat her ass , twice, with loud voice ,then not wah-wah tears ,but with a smile, so the little guy can laugh ,it is the husband bad music, said that a child will give us amused ,called her to tease .
But I always felt funny name some random ,as a scientific name is not so good ,she is a rainy morning birth ,call Yu Xi, the Xi word is too complex ,was changed into Yuqian ,Doudou as its nickname ,the daughter was settled .
relationresultOf course,some visibility is not only Doudou two word pronunciation .relationresultTease inless than three months ,not like to sleep ,like outdoors, but never quiet sitting, not dance with joy ,is the mouth babbling oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh don stop .
People come ,not be they tease her ,she to active oh oh oh oh hello . This doll to have bit of meaning ,was originally the grandpa and grandma are good to tease her, later ,aunt aunt are good funny, uncles or amuse ,others a tease ,she said an endless ,sometimes speak saliva DC ,still spirits high, those who make her people could not help but laugh .
relationresultTo six months time,the basic can understand words ,she is not strange ,aunt said ,fifty hug ,she opened her chubby hands ;she said ,Beanie with a smile, she split with four of his front teeth small mouth .
relationresultIn ten months time,will call grandpa grandma father mother ,also called aunt ,but the word a long , aunt words are short ,she cries be poker-faced ,very funny .relationresultLess than one year old,can say many words ,can say some sentences ,and clear pronunciation ,or standard Mandarin .
The small mouth sweeter ,people shout ,shout out can approximate age .Of course there are called the wrong time ,a 30-year-old male colleagues ,bald ,but she called home Grandpa ,people get very feel shy ;and a more than 50 years old grandmother with braids ,dressed in red ,she called aunt ,it dare not wear red clothes .
In the person says ,want to know you look how old ,standing in front of you to tease ,tease you will know .Teasing is a visual view ,mercurial vapor,drop yo eyes have a look at people ,abercrombie france,feet ,have a look of clothes ,seems to have eyes turn to crisp ,shout it out .
No matter what to call ,the other will laugh ha ha .Sometimes people would deliberately teased her , you have a look ,I am so old it ,call me aunt . Twenty shook his head ,very seriously said: you are not my aunt ,aunt .
( the general adults will teach children than mothers called aunt ,smaller than mother shouted aunt .) , relationresultBesttease her ,asked : are you tease ,soya bean ,mung bean ,red bean ,black soya bean or pea ,bean ,cowpea ,potatoes ? Doudou will be very seriously, I soya bean ,mung bean ,red bean ,black bean ,broad bean ,pea ,cowpea ,potatoes ,I tease tease you Le Cai ,is a funny ,not can eat the beans .
No matter how many beans each other out ,she can repeat, and deny them ,her power and the serious appearance always ask the person laugh .But this time teasing can also be just perfect for the sentence, you see, Doudou entertain you ! We can attract each other laugh .
relationresultInher three years old is no one called her Yuqian ,are called to tease ,to kindergarten enrollment ,almost forgot her name .We forget ,of course some yourself for Yuqian this name is very strange, in the kindergarten teacher called Cai Yuqian several times ,that she did not respond .
My family ,we all call her Yuqian ,so she used her name .My husband and I can also Yuqian ,Doudou for a call ,but her grandmother is not so easy ,called export still tease .Funny strange ask , why should I call Yuqian ,I am funny ? I explained to her name and nickname distinction, she blinking eyes stared at me .
I know that she still does not understand why she had two names ,in school why is Cai Yuqian not that funny, I had to tell her ,then someone called Cai Yuqian ,she promised ,she reluctantly agreed to pout .
relationresultThe name is just a code name,it will with his life .My name is very masculine ,father of a wrong thought in passing ,let my name misunderstanding and follow my life .I wish my daughter will not give her any .
One day ,funny and I said ,teacher called her Cai Yuqian ( Qian ) ,her long time did not come, did not know is called her .She has two pronunciations, Xi and Qian ,and can be used for the name, it is a wrong thought in passing ,I gave her the name brings a bit of trouble .
I asked her daughter to change the name ,she shook her head ,said , Zhang said my name is quite pleasant, good shout good writing, for a girl ,Xi ,Qian Yuqian Yuqian well .I will remember Yuqian Qian is me on the line .
This remark is that I have some happy ( on the third grade the Doudou ) ,and no mention of the name change .relationresultTwo,I am the bottle gourd child , relationresultFunnylike watch TV ,at the age of two or three day and night and her grandmother sit together watching ,her grandmother to see what she can see what ,her Grandma see how long she can see how long .
Her grandmother that she is so small doll ,is cannot read what .However, once she grandmother and other Grandma tells her to watch TV when you forget ,the protagonist name ,playing beside the Doudou say out .
Her grandmother is shocked, then ask her what people ,she said a few ,also say that his uncle is a bad guy .Her grandma .Sighing for a long time, so little doll would watch tv !My husband and I know ,will discuss cannot let Doudou followed her Grandma see adult television ,also cannot see too long ,so the provisions can only one hour every day children to let her see .
relationresultChildrenin the animated cartoon ,Doudou is fascinated by the cartoon ,every day there will wait and see ,see just focus .She looked at the first cartoon film is King Kong bottle gourd child ,seven bottle gourd child ,she can say every Cucumis skill mana features ,mercurial vapor pas cher,such as come was Hercules ,two baby is a thousand-mile eye and Wind-accompanying ear ,three baby spit water ,four baby spit fire etc.
.During that period of time ( about twenty two and a half ) ,do not know why ,she likes to bully than her small children ,and especially likes to fight .They held in the hands of the doll ,Doudou see will past touch doll face ,but also his arms ,always make people cry, she said ,I just want to tease him play ,how can he be so good to cry .
See those walking just one or two years old little guy on the ground ,she will run in the past to push, and then run away .She also likes to in behind the child, want to play with them, others ignored her ,she would make trouble .
She often cried ,I is the bottle gourd child ,also learn cartoon three of her four baby ,akimbo ,mouth ,say spit fire spit water ,also spit .She think she really have the bottle gourd child mana ,so fearless .
All her misdeeds many people complain to me ,I have no less gas beat her ass ,and she speaks the truth ,for provisions, but be of no avail .relationresultShe isbossy ,on the first day of kindergarten ,the teacher will call on me, said she was in the school play the other kids .
Home from the kindergarten ,I asked her why she hit others, she said , who let him and I grab the slide ,I don him, is to push ,he fell on the ground is also crying . Then ,she cried ,saying the teacher hit her hand .
She stretched out her hand to me ,not red not swollen ,,estimation is not painful cry ,is wronged to cry .I did not criticize her ,tell her to and children together ,those toys are all of you, not her own, they can play .
relationresultAfter Iheard that she and the other children to grab toys .But ,after three years ,she had not hit other children .Also strange ,how to teach her ,before training her ,beat her ,let her not playing the other children ,she doesn .
After the age of three, but more like gentle ,hold ,also likes to tease those a few months old baby to play, like a big sister .In the courtyard, those smaller than her one or two children all like looking for funny play ,and big sister cried, with funny ass, it was a bit like an echo gathered up ,Doudou always those many children ran in front of the leading sheep .
relationresultIn view of the fact thatthe bottle gourd child brought bad influence ,I told her to watch the bottle gourd child prohibited .Bottle gourd child not to read, but there are other cartoons at home ,even if I do, she will go to other children at home watching ( Doudou like house ) ,in short ,I was unable to forbid her to the animated cartoon music .
Like when I was young like comic books ,even if no money to buy ,can think of a way to see the total .Following the bottle gourd child ,her cartoon I can , Ultraman ,air jordan, Transformers , the black cat , machine cat , firepower teenager king , journey to the west , pleasant goat and grey wolf , rainbow blue cat rabbit seven chivalrous biography and so on .
Each watch a cartoon ,louboutin pas cher,she is very dedicated, almost put yourself into .Like the first look at the bottle gourd child ,each one to see the film ,she will put himself as the cartoon characters ,such as I am the bottle gourd child ,I am Ultraman ,I am black cat sergeant,burberry soldes, I am Sun Wukong ,I am pleasant goat shouting and imitation ensue ,sometimes sleep dreams will continue her shout and dance with joy .
For her this phenomenon ,our home is mixed ,follow one is strictly prohibited ,my husband and I are not unified .relationresultBut no matter how,we can her imitations ,even if does not mimic cartoons can mimic other .
Every child will have such experience ,the child is in imitation of slowly growing up .Some like to watch cartoons, until now still love ( now eight years old ) ,her focus and into the still ,just won three or four years old as to imitate cartoon content ,it is also a kind of growth .
relationresultThree,word , relationresultTeasein two and a half time to learn a game :she loves her little finger grasp my finger ,hook hook hook hanging , one hundred no change .I told her that sentence and the point of the game is to speak .
She likes hook hook ,but also really do speak .relationresultTeaseafter weaning ( one year old ) ,is obsessed with the bottle ,no matter what to drink bottle ,not even drink nothing like the bottle containing a ,night must fall asleep with a bottle .
This custom is very bad ,but don ,especially at night ,to sleep with a bottle ,on oral teeth are not good ,and often ,sucking the bottle ,the upper lip are some outer warping ,not look good .
Tell her a lot of sense, to get a few times ,but to no avail .I often ask her ,when can not suck milk bottle .She always answer ,at the age of three .Two and a half later ,when asked her ,she and my hook hook .
Three years old birthday ,she and I pull hook ,really do not have a bottle ,abercrombie,and will not find don bottle .Ask her if she wants to ,she nodded ,asked her if she wanted to ,she shook her head ,said , pull hook will speak ! , relationresultFunnysleeping is not honest ,two feet left to play the right pedal ,two little hands left push right pat, also like kicking a quilt cover quilt ,do others can ,want to let her sleep alone .
Of course she could not agree with one bed ,and sleep with her grandmother .Ask a few times ,she said nothing .Then ask ,she said ,at the age of six she was a person to sleep ( she was four years old and more) .
I said ,five years ?She was firmly said no, must go to six years old, asked her why ,she does not speak .She and I hook hook ,and from time to time to remind her .Six years on that day, I put the cleaned ,bought a small bed ,covered with cartoon on the bed sheet and quilt cover .
She is happy ,she has her own bed ,after dinner you in bed ,and her love of dolls and like to see the book on the bed beside .That night she slept well ,but the very next day evening ,in the middle of the night when he ran over to our side ,afraid of .
The evening of the third day ,we always encourage her to be a brave boy, a person sleeps not afraid .She reluctantly agreed ,night ,I went to see her three times ,sleep very fragrant .Several evenings later ,all right .
One day, in the morning I found her clutching his quilt ,perspired .She said she was awake at night ,afraid ,head the quilt is not afraid ,and then fell asleep .I smiled and said , fear of how not to mother sleep ? She shook her head , I and my mother retractor hook .
, relationresultFunnylove braids ,so every time she cuts hair ,said nothing .Long hair shampoo trouble ,each shampoo she would cry ,that made her uncomfortable ,hurt ,but every time she does not promise to cut hair .
I say let her wash ,she said she would not .I teach her several times, she is not wash, some said to be eight years old to her hair ( take a shower ,wash the socks six when they wash their ) .
In October of this year, some over eight years old ,she volunteered to wash themselves to take a shower ,I ,she has to wash his own times ,have been very skilled, and don shout ache is not bad .
But she did not own braids ,she said that she was ten years old when his pigtail .Also said that at the age of twelve to cook their own food .relationresultI am looking forward totwo years later ,after four years, because I know she said ,she said, will be able to do so ,even if not done ,she will try to learn ,she will overcome .
This point ,I admire her ,at the same time ,I also remind myself to speak ,I promised her things to do .In fact ,we in the education of children, children in the education of our ;many times ,we also need the education of children ,because children have the world pure heart !relationresultFour,is not dance , relationresultTeasetemperament has a large parts like me ,like static dynamic Hi ,but the more grown up more reluctant to activity .
relationresultIn kindergarten,she don is dance lessons ,each teacher to teach them to dance ,her reaction is very slow ,and even learned ,is also a kind of Lai sluggish appearance ,action is not in place .
Each dance rehearsal time, Doudou will stand in the back .I went to a few times kindergarten parent-child activities, every time she danced on the anxious, the teacher also said that she didn animals .
Kindergarten for three years ,each dance ,she basically is mixed .Primary school, she said happily, I can not dance .Even she would have a lot of homework to do not want to dance .Ask her to dance ,what kind of difficulties ,she said ,I just do not dance .
She doesn ,no way, forced not to .Sometimes we can see some other girl jumping lively appearance ,but also to several in dance training class of graceful movement ,which I admired .relationresultTeasedon ,so in many activities she felt some movement coordination, balance ability .
Bicycle school for a long time will ;skating but also learn how not to ;not interested in skateboarding ,relates to outdoor sports activities she seems to be not very interested .Of course ,like playing with sand ,clay ,play game she was like .
She likes most is to sit down quietly watch TV ,read a book .relationresultFunnylike read a book ,a story book ( idiom stories ,fairy tales ,stories of life etc.) ,picture book ( comics ,illustrations ,etc.
) ,Encyclopedia of writing the book ,and as in plant and animal ,puzzles ,brain teasers ,interesting books ,she likes to see ,even I read prose ,essays ,novel , readers , meaning , Youth ,she also journal ,summer vacation time she also read that adult hardback edition of the vernacular journey to the West .
Each book supermarket ,she not shifting spanner ,cannot come out .relationresultFunnylike read a book ,her vocabulary than I was rich ,but because of her lack of experience ,some words are not really understand ,often have the wrong person when you take the words too literally or misuse ,but to write composition ,words that need not worry ,a with a large pile of her language learning ,I have nothing to worry about .
While the benefits of reading not only in language learning, reading habits when is lifelong ,jordan,books are the crystallization of human wisdom ,spiritual food, human life is always good teachers and helpful friends ,books .
relationresultSevenyears old, to make her own choice of a class ,she chose a painting class .About painting and calligraphy is suitable for her ,quiet introverted .The initial study of strokes ,and watercolor ,gouache ,and later to sketch .
In her painting and no preference ,also don ,and the calligraphy was born with a savvy, from the initial pencils ,pens, then brush .Especially the writing brush, Doudou had to pick up the pen and write ( now I never brush word ) ,the teacher said that she and the brush has edge ,hands holding tight ,pen retractable have a degree .
Learn the basic strokes and stroke methods, can quickly imitate the teacher words to write ,each teacher praised her for her good .Two times I not tell is funny to write or teacher ,,the teacher make fun of ,Doudou is introduction: his bowl ,can become a teacher .
Doudou had written in beautiful, composition is well written ( Doudou is now the third grade ) ,often in the exhibition of her Chinese examination paper .To this point ,Doudou than her father and I are strong ,enough to make us feel proud .
relationresultSomesaid , Mom ,I can ,but I calligraphy ! , relationresultYes,to dance and is not her fault ,and her handwriting can become her advantage !We cannot ask children to ten all-embracing ,we also cannot bring himself to wish children to achieve , others ,oneself desire ,also you .
Each child has her characteristics and preferences ,we can according to their own wishes to ask the child ,we should be good at discovering the characteristics of children ,in a relaxed and pleasant to guide and cultivate .
In training children, also in the culture of my own,abercrombie, in some influence,louboutin, I also began to practice calligraphy pen ,Doudou said she would like to be my calligraphy teacher .relationresultFive,like most , relationresultTeaseon the first grade when, like to ask her father and I ,like what color ,what most like flowers ,like most songs ,like most fruits ,,like to eat what food, like most books ,the most like to see what ,like most people ,who most loves ,etc.
, and so on the love will often ask her father and I scratch the first hard ,but could not bright say a word .Those who love the project seems to be not only ,is not a word ,for example ,I like the color more than a love song ,more than one song ,like many of the fruits ,like the book a lot, to discharge a has light weight is not easy .
Twenty ask every time when, I always say a string ,she pout , do you like best ,you say so much ,which is like the most ? I shook my head ,I do not know what is love .relationresultUntil sheagain ask you, I will stop her ,don most line or not ?She sighed , Alas ,my mom and dad too no personality ,even his love also says not to come out ! A sincere words and earnest wishes and turn iron into steel deep .
Her father and I could not help but laugh ,laugh at her, can you say you like the most ? She is a pair of have a well-thought-out plan . Of course ,I most like to ,pink ,because pink means ;I like the gardenia ,because mother love ,I also like her white fragrant ;my most loved grateful heart this song ,because our school every day to play this song ,very good ,I also learn ;I like strawberry ,because of her sweet fragrant water foot .
And so on ,she said closely reasoned and well argued ,not only has the most ,and the reason ,let me sit up and take notice and her father .relationresultNowchildren ,than did our contemporaries have personality ,90 children personality has cut a striking figure ,after 2000 ,ten years later ,their personality and the appearance of what is ,in these 70 80 parents, both looking forward to have worries .
In the individual time, how to cultivate and develop the child ,and not let their personality is too strong ,sometimes I really do not know what to do .Fortunately ,funny personality, but personality is not strong ,she is not arrogant overbearing .
relationresultIn addition tolove love Doudou most such problems, there is a period of time, especially to ask ,meet what what phenomenon to ask why, why I can explain some ,but most of the why ,I can so .
During that time ,her father and I are a bit afraid of her why ,often can let us being at a loss what to do ,not knowing why it is so ,often will act with confusion ,the book search data dictionary ,the network also used on .
While there are many why ,also did not know why .I have to say to her, I do not know .Funny and strange asked , my mother is a teacher, why the teacher did not know ? The so I asked some embarrassing .
I bought her a few of the one hundred thousand why ,that ,she went to the book asked ,holding the book ,reading is often explained to us something .I and his father called her the two of us one hundred thousand why the teacher .
She read a Book of interest is more strong .relationresultChildrenare curious by nature ,what is strange , why questions such as is every child growth would have, why on behalf of their observation and reflection, is also the child to accept new things in a way .
We have so many children in why should not only cope with perfunctory or scold the don ,but rather to be the correct guidance ,that why is the door to knowledge and wisdom ,we cannot use this door inadvertently give the child off .
relationresultFor a person to becomeanother person ,that accident, but his ( her ) life is change .He ( she ) hell-bent like stone shop on the ground ,kids want toe pad .relationresultWeaccompany the child ,nourish the children ,children also accompanied us ,nourishes us .
Mark Fischer, LAc is a licensed Oriental medical physician. He has a clinical acupuncture and oriental medical practice in Boulder Colorado. You can read more articles by Mark as well as find out information about his clinic at: